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What to Do When Your Husband Says He Wants a Divorce - These 5 Things Could Save Your Marriage
by richard on Mar.04, 2010, under Uncategorized
Sorry for not posting for while. I was busy doing something else. Now I’ve come back to give you tips. 
The words have just left his mouth, and you sit there, open mouthed, shocked, devastated and with no clue how to respond. He said he is pretty sure he wants to end the marriage and mentioned the dreaded D word. You might think this is the end, and there is no coming back from this, but this doesn’t need to be the end if you are prepared to fight for your marriage. After all, if something is worth having, then it’s worth fighting for. But what should you do now you have found the devastating truth about how he feels about you and the marriage? Follow these 5 tips, and you are going to be in with a shot of holding on to your beloved marriage, and he may never utter the D word ever again.
1. Don’t make it clear that you are devastated about it. Yes, we both know you are, but he may see that as a sign of weakness and he may even be ‘testing’ you. Instead, say you are disappointed, but that ‘life goes on’. Try not to cry in front of him, and certainly don’t make things more dramatic by discussing it with friends and family when he is around.
2. Try and go on as normally as possible. Saying and doing are two very different things. Your husband may have told you he thinks he wants a divorce, but has he seen a lawyer? Do you have any papers yet? If not, it’s not over yet. Go through your day to day life as you normally would. Yes, it’s difficult, but it’s not impossible.
3. Take the pressure off the marriage. What I mean by this is don’t be tempted to try and suddenly change into what you think he wants. Instead, try and spend some time together in a kind of ‘friends’ capacity. Try to just get along well for now. I’d also recommend no kissing or physical intimacy.
4. Spend some more time doing things outside of the marriage. Maybe you can spend more time with friends or pursuing your hobbies and interests. I absolutely DO NOT mean flirting with other men just to make him jealous or any of that monkey business. That’s just childish and will come back to bite you.
5. Let the dust settle. He very well might have said what he said in the heat of the moment, or after a period of frustration or anger. Even if he felt he really meant it, a period of reflection may do wonders in terms of him realizing he was being irrational and overreacting. Don’t ask him why, don’t keep pushing him for answers. Just let it be for now.
If you can manage to follow these steps, you are going to be in a position of power, rather than a victim who is left devastated. However, there is still an issue to resolve. Why did he say such a thing in the first place? The chances are that it was because your marriage isn’t working as well as it should. What you need to do now is start working on the entire marriage so this never happens again and you are both happy.
Simple Guidelines on Preparing Best Mans Speeches
by richard on Nov.02, 2009, under Uncategorized
It’s been said over and over again, being the best man is an honor. You have the privilege of being your friend or brother’s wing man during the most important day of his life. However, it’s not an easy position to be in. One of the most daunting tasks of being the best man is giving the toast. As this is an event that has been in the making for months, it will not do to just create your speech just before you are about to give it. A lot of thought must be done before creating best mans speeches. Fortunately, samples of best mans speeches are aplenty online. Consider this guideline as you prepare your speech.
1. Relax and take it easy. Standing up and speaking in front of hundreds of guests can be nerve-wracking. However, this is a joyous event, a celebration of love; just relax before giving your speech and you will be fine.
2. Insert a few jokes to make it fun. Since this is a celebration, it’s okay to insert a few jokes and funny anecdotes here and there in your speech. A hearty laugh is better than a bucket full of tears. Just make sure that your jokes are clean as bad jokes are not appreciated by people in general.
3. Give marriage advices. If you’re married, share something about what you have learned in your own marriage. If you’re not married, talk about your observations about married people and how they made their relationship last.
4. Finally, keep it short. Guests come to the wedding reception to enjoy and have fun. They don’t want to sit down and listen to long-winded speeches. Remember, this wedding is not about you, but about the bride and groom.
Enjoy a Wedding in Las Vegas
by richard on May.24, 2009, under Uncategorized
You are such a happy couple. The engagement was so exciting you have had an engagement party and are set out telling the world how happy you are to be together. You absolutely can’t wait to be together forever. Once all of the excitement of the engagement starts to wear down, you begin to realize that you have a pretty big wedding to plan, but not much money to do it with. You begin to fight over things like flowers, who sits where at the reception, and the cake. With all the stress it stops being fun and begins to be a drag for both of you. The romance has left and all you want to do now is run away and just get married, since that is all that matters at the end of everything. This is where a Las Vegas wedding comes in. There are thousands of quick romantic Las Vegas weddings every year, so why not do it? If it becomes months of unhappiness and stress, it just isn’t worth losing the true meaning. A Las Vegas wedding will get you what you want, without being extremely costly.
Consider the number one marriage capital of the world, Las Vegas, Nevada is a breathtaking place to get married at. There are over 100,000 Las Vegas weddings a year. With gorgeous weather 320 days out of the year, there are many reasons why a Las Vegas wedding is so popular. Why not get married and have your honeymoon in the same place? There are a ton of things to do so you have no chance at getting bored. You can do anything from clubbing to gambling, Las Vegas really does have it all. Most significantly, is the fact that a Las Vegas wedding is easy and without any hassle. There is a waiting period or any blood tests required. All you really need is $55 to get your marriage license and prove you are 18 years of age or older.
The Las Vegas wedding of your choice is there. You can have any kind of wedding you want, whether it be traditional or a little of the crazy side. It just depends of your mode and budget. Every hotel and casino in Las Vegas have stunning sites for ceremonies and receptions, also they all come with wedding planners to help you out! You can have an wedding with the king of rock and roll if you like, or rent an awesome car and go to a drive-thru chapel. If you are a little organized, you can call ahead and plan your wedding a little bit in advice. If you just want to go, than go! Let your imagination lead you to your Las Vegas wedding!a
4 Tips For Wedding Tuxedos
by richard on May.20, 2009, under Uncategorized
Making the decision to tie the know is a big step in every man’s life and one that he must be sure of. Once you ask your dream girl to marry you, there is plenty to decide on before the fateful day arrives. While your beautiful bride will take responsibility for most of the planning and details, you aren’t completely free to sit back and wait. Your wife to be is going to look spectacular and you need to look the best you can too. You need to choose the wedding tuxedos for your groomsmen and yourself. Making certain that you and your fellow buddies are looking their best is going to be your biggest responsibility before the wedding. (continue reading…)
Wedding Cruises
by richard on May.19, 2009, under Uncategorized
A wedding cruise is ideal for every bride to be. Nothing is more romantic than being married with nothing but the ocean around you. It is an experience that is unique and beautiful.
Lately, a wedding cruise has become relatively in style. This is partially because many cruise lines have wedding cruise packages available. These packages make it more affordable than it was to have your wedding on a cruise ship. Many cruise ships offer everything you need for a romantic wedding, so it makes easier for everyone. (continue reading…)
Have Fun At Your Wedding Shower Through Games
by richard on May.19, 2009, under Uncategorized
Every bride-to-be looks forward to having her wedding shower. A wedding shower is typically a tradition performed in most United States weddings and Canadian weddings. A close friend of the bride, usually the maid of honor or a relative, is in charge of planning and hosting a wedding shower. The wedding shower is a great opportunity for girls to be girls and have a ton of fun.
The theme of a wedding shower is based on what the bride is interested in. The theme is used as a guide as to what gifts should be given by everyone to the bride. Wedding shower themes include kitchen wear, lingerie, princess, or even a tea party. Its all up to what the bride likes and the imagination. Every wedding shower though need to have something that breaks the ice and lets everyone to get to know each other. This is where a wedding shower game comes in handy. (continue reading…)
